The Carbonstone Journal

Engagement Ring Guides

Engagement Ring Guides

Everything you need to choose an engagement ring with confidence — from settings and diamond shapes to ring size, metal and budget. Practical, jargon-free guidance from the CarbonstoneUK team.

Who Pays for the Engagement Ring?

Traditionally the proposer pays, though many couples now split the cost or buy together. No reliable UK figure exists, so let the 2 of you set the budget.

How Many Promise Rings Should You Give?

One is the usual answer, because a second ring dilutes the first. Some couples do give 2, marking different stages, and no tradition forbids it.

Can You Set a Round Diamond in a Square Mount?

Yes. A square or cushion-shaped mount holds a round stone happily, and we do it often when resetting an inherited ring. Expect 4 corners to be built up.

What Should You Say When You Give a Promise Ring?

Say what the ring means before you hand it over, in 2 or 3 plain sentences. Naming the promise matters more than the wording, and engraving can carry it.

How Many Claws Does a Pear Shaped Diamond Need?

Five is the usual count: 4 around the body and 1 V-shaped claw over the point. The point is the thinnest part of the stone and chips first if left bare.

How to Ask Your Partner for a Promise Ring

Asking directly works better than hinting. Say what you want the ring to mean, name a budget you both accept, and agree on 1 finger before anyone buys.

Do You Actually Need an Engagement Ring?

No. An engagement is a promise, not a purchase, and many couples go straight to 2 wedding bands instead. The ring is a custom, not something you must buy.

What Is a Hexagon Cut Diamond?

A hexagon cut has six straight sides and is usually a step or mixed cut. We make 4 hexagon rings, and each of the 6 corners is a point that needs covering.

What Are the Different Engagement Ring Settings?

Five settings cover almost every ring we make: claw, rubover, halo, pave and channel. A claw setting holds the stone with 4 or 6 small metal fingers.

Diamond Shapes and Cuts: The Complete Guide

Shape is the outline, cut is the quality. Every diamond shape compared, what we stock, and how to match a shape to a hand.

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